Nicole Malachowski

MENTAL HEALTH SPEAKER • Nicole Malachowski

Failure is the price of entry for achieving something great.

Trailblazing Leader • Resilient Advocate • Inspirational Storyteller

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About Nicole

Colonel Nicole Malachowski, USAF (Ret.), defies stereotypes with a remarkable career as a jet fighter pilot and the first woman in the Thunderbirds Air Demonstration Squadron. Her 21-year Air Force career included over 2,300 flight hours and significant leadership in combat missions, including the historic 2005 Iraq elections. Nicole’s achievements earned her induction into the National Women’s Hall of Fame and the Women in Aviation International Pioneer Hall of Fame, and even a Star Trek starship named after her, the USS Malachowski.

After a debilitating tick-borne illness left her unable to speak or walk, Nicole’s resilience led her to inspire others to go beyond mere endurance to achieve resurgence. She has held influential roles, including White House Fellow and Executive Director of the Joining Forces initiative, advising on military family issues.

Nicole, who earned advanced degrees in National Security and Strategic Studies, has received numerous accolades, including the 2023 Award of Inspiration from The Ninety-Nines, Inc. 

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HARNESSING HEADWINDS – SUCCESSFULLY NAVIGATING CHANGE & ADVERSITY 

Leaders across every industry and experience level share one common challenge: effectively navigating failure, organizational change, and the unknown. Just as headwinds force a pilot to change direction, these perceived barriers can impact momentum and limit options. They can feel confusing, disorienting, and uncomfortable.

In this talk, Nicole Malachowski uses the aviation-based concept of headwinds as a metaphor to illustrate how, with the right mindset, individuals and teams can leverage these challenges to their advantage. Nicole inspires individuals and organizations to enhance their ability to:

Overcome Personal and Professional Failures:
  • Develop strategies to address and learn from setbacks.

Navigate Organizational and Cultural Change:
  • Gain tools to manage and thrive amidst shifts in organizational dynamics.

Endure the Discomfort of the Unknown:
  • Embrace uncertainty and turn it into a source of growth.

Increase Resilience and Adaptability:
  • Build skills to adapt, reinvent, and regroup effectively.

Rise Above Self-Doubt and Cultural Paradigms:
  • Cultivate the courage to challenge self-doubt and traditional norms.

Support and Mentor Others:
  • Learn how to guide and support team members through their own challenges.
  • Nicole’s insights empower leaders to transform challenges into opportunities, driving both personal and organizational success.

PUSHING THE ENVELOPE – BEING THE BEST WHEN IT COUNTS To be successful

Leaders from every industry and experience level must effectively navigate self-doubt, master the role of a trustworthy team player, and embrace moments of personal and professional vulnerability. Using the concept of an aircraft performance envelope as a metaphor, Nicole Malachowski, an elite fighter pilot and military leader, shares inspiring personal stories and practical tools to help individuals and teams reach beyond commonly-assumed limitations to achieve their maximum capabilities and impact.

Nicole’s presentation will enhance the ability of individuals and teams to:

Overcome Self-Doubt:
  • Address and transcend self-doubt that can hinder personal and professional growth.

Model Trustworthiness:
  • Exhibit the selfless trust required to be an effective and reliable teammate.

Practice Vulnerability and Transparency:
  • Utilize vulnerability and transparency to build trust and strengthen teamwork.

Build Accountability and Dependability:
  • Develop accountability, dependability, and reliability to drive high performance.

Break Down Silos:
  • Unleash creativity and adaptability by breaking down organizational silos.
  • Nicole’s insights and experiences inspire leaders to push beyond their perceived limits and cultivate a high-performing, cohesive, and innovative team environment.

Awards & Publications

Books published

National Security Policy from American Military University 

Highest distinction, in National Security and Strategic Studies from the U.S. Naval War College

More About Nicole 

Nicole Malachowski, USAF (Ret.) defies stereotypes. Yes, she was a jet fighter pilot, but if you think you know her based on that, you’d be wrong. A leader, a combat veteran, the first woman pilot on the Thunderbirds Air Demonstration Squadron, a White House Fellow, and an inductee into both the National Women’s Hall of Fame and the Women in Aviation International Pioneer Hall of Fame – she even has a Star Trek Federation starship named after her, the USS Malachowski (NCC-1619). Nicole’s distinguished 21-year Air Force career exceeded her wildest dreams. But the dream came to an end when a devastating tick-borne illness left her struggling greatly to speak or walk for almost nine months. An indomitable spirit, Nicole fought back against overwhelming odds and prevailed. Drawing on stories from her career and personal life, Nicole inspires audiences to rethink the challenges they face every day. She urges them to go beyond resilience and become resurgent. Nicole’s empowers people with three key beliefs: failure and risk is the price of entry for achieving something great; sometimes you need to yield to overcome; and her personal mantra – “Nobody wants to lead a scripted life.”
 
Nicole brings her experience to the stage and holds audiences spellbound with an easygoing authenticity of someone who’s achieved greatness. She’s been a member and leader of exceptional teams. She has faced overwhelming challenges and adversity and has come out on top. 

While other high school students were practicing for their driver’s license, Nicole was accumulating flight time. She was sixteen years old when she took her first solo flight and from that point on there was no stopping her. While in high school, she joined the Civil Air Patrol and participated in Air Force Junior ROTC. Nicole’s professional story began when she earned her commission from the United States Air Force Academy in 1996. Following graduation, she attended Undergraduate Pilot Training (UPT) at Columbus AFB, MS and began her career as a pilot. Competitively selected to fly combat aircraft, she was among the first group of women to fly modern fighter aircraft. As a career pilot, she served in combat as an F-15E Flight Commander, Evaluator, Instructor Pilot and Flight Lead. Over her 21-year career, Nicole achieved the rating of Command Pilot with over 2,300 flight hours in six different Air Force aircraft. She was also selected to fly as Thunderbird #3 with the USAF Air Demonstration Squadron – the first woman to fly on any Department of Defense military jet demonstration squadron. Colonel Malachowski has served as a mission ready fighter pilot in three operational F-15E fighter squadrons and has flown over 188 combat hours, including her proudest moment as a fighter pilot: leading the first fighter formation to provide security for Iraq’s historic democratic elections in 2005.

On the ground, Nicole was a White House Fellow, class of 2008-2009, where she served on the Presidential Transition Support Team (PTST) while assigned to the U.S. General Services Administration. The White House Fellows Foundation and Association awarded Nicole the 2019 IMPACT Award for demonstrating both remarkable achievement and transformational contributions in her field, as well as a sustained commitment to the White House Fellows program. Nicole also served two high-level staff assignments at the Pentagon – one in the Office of the Secretary of Defense (OSD P&R) as well as the Secretary of the Air Force Office of International Affairs (SAF/IA). She also served as the Executive Director of the White House’s national ‘Joining Forces’ initiative where she directly advised former First Lady Michelle Obama and Dr. Jill Biden on all topics relating to service members, veterans, and military families to include employment, education, mental health, veterans’ homelessness and more.

Nicole’s operational F-15E assignments include two tours of duty at RAF Lakenheath, United Kingdom as well as one operational assignment to Seymour Johnson AFB, NC. She has also served alongside the United States Army 2nd Infantry Division, Camp Red Cloud, Republic of Korea, as an Air Liaison Officer. During her second assignment to Seymour Johnson AFB, NC, she had the honor of commanding the 333rd Fighter Squadron, leading an elite cadre of F-15E Instructors in the training of the next generation of combat aviators. Further, she was responsible for resources totaling over $1.1B and the execution of a $119M annual flying hour program. 

Nicole earned a Master of Arts, with honors, in National Security Policy from American Military University and a second Master of Arts, with highest distinction, in National Security and Strategic Studies from the U.S. Naval War College. While there, she earned the Admiral Stephen B. Luce Award as the class honor graduate, the first Air Force officer in the history of the Naval War College to do so. Nicole has received several prestigious honors in recognition of her significant contributions to various endeavors, including the 2023 Award of Inspiration from The Ninety-Nines, Inc.®, an international organization of women pilots who are dedicated to encouraging and inspiring people to chase their dreams, whether in aviation directly or in other arenas.

As Nicole continues to recover from her neurological tick-borne illness, she embraces any opportunity to educate others about her medical journey and gains energy from educating others about this growing epidemic. She is on the Board of Directors at the LivLyme Foundation and is a Patient Advisory Board Member of The Dean Center for Tick Borne Illness. In November 2020, Nicole was announced as one of 2020’s “Mighty 25” by We Are The Mighty for her passionate advocacy on behalf of veterans’ health. The Mighty 25 is a recognition bestowed each year to change makers in the veteran, active duty, and military family space.

Colonel Nicole Malachowski, USAF (Ret.) was born in Santa Maria, CA and graduated high school in Las Vegas, NV. She and her husband Paul have twin children; son Garrick and daughter Norah. Paul is a retired Air Force Lieutenant Colonel and former F-15E Evaluator Weapons Systems Officer.  

Reviews

A.m.a.z.i.n.g!

- Riverbed Technology, Inc.

I didn’t sit in on her recording session but watched the final cut and WOW! She is A.M.A.Z.I.N.G! We’re really excited to share this with our audience on Thursday.

Engaging and humble

- Savannah Economic Development Authority

I have worked with many speakers throughout my career, and by far, Nicole is the best. Easy to work with, engaged, and humble. She did her homework and tied in our mission to her remarks, hitting the nail on the head on how our audience of over 800 people can work together as a team. She was funny, passionate, and drove home her points. We had attendees lined up for 45 minutes afterward to speak to her personally, and she was gracious in speaking to every one of them.

absolute best

- Transamerica

In my 35 years in the financial services industry, I've seen a lot of great speakers. Nicole is the absolute best I've ever seen. Her story is inspirational, her delivery is superb. But most of all, Nicole spent the time and energy to get to know OUR story so that her presentation was really about US.

genuine personality

- Elsevier

Nicole has a great talent for connecting with an audience with her relatable and genuine personality. I highly recommend Nicole to anyone who is looking for a speaker that will engage their audience and influence them to think differently about their challenges.

Just what we needed!

- NCTUE Inc.

Nicole left our entire audience in AWE, and for the remainder of the conference, she was a reference point for conversations and motivation in how we could develop plans to overcome challenges of our own. If you ever have the opportunity to see or hear Nicole speak, it is a must-see event that will not disappoint!!

Well Received and Relatable

- PURE Insurance

I'm sure you won't be surprised to hear that Nicole was an absolute home run. I know her message made a profound and lasting effect on many of my colleagues, including me. Plus, she is just so nice and human. It's really special. I'm not sure how I will top her for future events!

Great energy. Relatable. Actionable advice.

- Best Western Hotels & Resorts

A very special thank you for your incredible keynote at our team meeting this week. You touched my team with your brilliant and meaningful storytelling and have inspired them with your leadership and very practical tips on how to manage headwinds. You captivated their hearts and minds—and it was exactly the kind of closing I wanted to end our week of planning sessions.

YEAR 2 AWESOME EXPERIENCE

- Terri Bennett & Karole Hart

Nicole Malachowski took our financial professionals by storm - three weeks later, people are still talking about her. She has a unique gift of being able to relate her very interesting and exciting professional and personal life experiences to a diverse audience in a completely different profession. Her genuine conversational style made each attendee feel she was talking directly to them.

PHENOMENAL

- Club Management Association of America

Nicole was PHENOMENAL! One of the best speakers we’ve ever had. She was down to earth, had a powerful story, and really cared about adjusting her message to fit the audience. If there are ever any groups in the AHA looking for a keynote, I will highly recommend her to them.

WOW!

- Marci B.

I didn’t sit in on her recording session but watched the final cut and WOW! She is A.M.A.Z.I.N.G! We’re really excited to share this with our audience on Thursday.

Inspiring

- The Human Bean

Nicole was phenomenal. Her strength and determination are so inspiring…really incredible.

Speaks from the heart

- Raymond James & Associates

Colonel Malachowski is an inspiring, authentic speaker and leader. She speaks from the heart as she tells a story of determination, grit, attention to detail, and service to others.

Best speaker

- Modivcare

The best leadership and motivational speaker I have ever had the privilege to listen to. Engaging from the moment she took the stage until the second she exited. I wish my daughters had been with me to hear her speak.

Inspirational

- Acadian Ambulance

She recently received a standing ovation! I highly recommend her for your next event.

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